This information, along with general information about your match, may be found in their profile.īefore you craft your pickup line, read through your match’s profile and learn about them. Some matches will be looking for a fun date, and others will be looking for something more.
#How to change preferences on tinder how to
How to set up a date on Tinder Read your match’s profileĮveryone is on Tinder for different reasons. Even if you chatted for a while and haven't talked to them in a week, circle back and say something like this, "It's been a busy week! But I'd love to see if you want to grab coffee. Go back to all of those conversations and start asking them out. And guys that wait a week will often wait two or more. Meaning I don't really know them better after 7 days than I did after 2. I have no problem with guys waiting a whole week, but I haven't seen much difference between results. That's the perfect time to ask for a date in my opinion. Basically have one good conversation, then circle around a day or two later and have another good conversation. My preference is 2 to 3 days of chatting. It always catches me by surprise, but I usually say yes. I've been on a couple dates where they asked me out in the first 20 minutes of texting. It's eye opening to see everyone's different choices on this." As a woman, I get a lot of messages and I'm chatting with multiple people.
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u/MsCrys00 said, "I like meeting up after 1-2 days of texting.I would say if you’ve been talking for a week, I’d suggest either having an in-person date set up or at the very least, a plan for a FaceTime date." u/katdanmorgan said, "I have often gotten stuck in the pen pal loop (you write for a few weeks or sometimes, a month) and I will say that you build expectations up fast.